OK, well it seems like you guys have a point about passive pots affecting the sound. I just remembered that that's what happens on a passive guitar or bass, that's why you always keep the volume pot all the way up. Makes sense.
It seems like SM-Pro is hip to the problem though. This is from the manual to the new M-Patch V2:
"The best way to setup the listening environment you are in is to have the MPatchV2 at full volume and then attenuate your speakers (or amp) to the maximum listening level."
I guess if I just start with my DAW at 0db (which I already do), crank M-Patch all the way up, and adjust the speakers to the max I would probably listen, it should be fine.
I have had the Gelelecs at 12 o'clock (they go from like 7 o'clock to 5 o'clock), and the M-Patch around 9 o'clock. If i change the Genelecs to 9 o'clock, and keep the M-Patch set higher, that should solve any issues, right?