I can help you. You are me.
Like you and many others here, I wanted a 1073, read and read and read everything possible, and like thrill has said, I couldn't rest inside until I had the real deal. The pre is just the starting point in a chain but it does make a difference, especially stacked across every track. I wanted my audio to start on the best foot possible.
Well, I finally got the real deal. It took years. Finally bought two for $4-5K at some point and sold them recently for $6-8K as you say, because the itch was scratched and I found a more sensible replacement. Which is what you are asking - it's a valid question.
That said, I also understand all the responses you are getting. They are not wrong, they are not being d*cks to you. The point they are making is valid too, but you and I both know you need to go through it this way.
So, here's my version of the answer to your question. I've shot out the following against my vintage 1073s and in some cases other ones (like at a studio with a vintage BCM-10) and I can tell you what MY ears (and sometimes the engineer there) thought. The list:
AMS 1073N
AMS 1073 hand-wired
BAE 1073
BAE DMP
Heritage 1073
Shelford 5052
Converted vintage 1272
Vintage Neve 1290 with correct vintage input/output transformers
Is this the answer you are looking for? I did all these comparisons over a while but always level matched and totally blind using something like the ABX tool. I did vocal comparisons, guitar comparisons and even entire songs doubled up with one pre vs the other, one or two tracks at a time. Of course, my experience is only with the units I had or used, and unit to unit differences are probably as big as clone to clone differences..
Well, here we go. The AMS 1073N had the general sound but it was not as smooth and silky, similar to the difference between modern day API and vintage API - just cleaner and brighter. The handwired AMS got closer (to my surprise), very similar but less bottom and still "newer" sounding. What does that even mean, right? Well original 1073s are quite woolly in my experience. Which is what brings up all the questions in this thread of whether that is what you really want - they're not wrong.
The BAE 1073s were almost indistinguishably close to the originals. There's a reason I guess even top studios have giant old Neve consoles full of BAEs instead of originals. But my BAEs were missing one single strand of hair of girth compared to the original, and I stupidly convinced myself that the original was superior. If I was doing it over today, I would just keep the BAE. It's stupid, even adding an AudioScape Opto after the BAE makes a far far bigger difference than between it and the original 1073. This is why you are getting the responses you are, and obviously you know that.
(The BAE DMP, on the other hand was cool and similar, but not quite as big and round sounding, a slight bit more balanced and neutral. Still very very usable!)
The Heritage was not useful to me. Maybe I got a bum unit, it just sounded bad. You hear/read all the time that they are as good as BAE, I won't contest that.
The Shelford comparison was intriguing. Whereas the BAE was the same one trick pony as the original, the Shelford can do many things. In 30-50% red silk mode though, it was close to the 1073 sound. But in blind tests, I could always pick the 1073 out, because it was unmistakably more rolled off. Is that a good thing? Is it smoother or is it duller?
It depends on the source, as you know of course. On vocals or acoustic guitar, with my Wunder CM7 S for example, the original 1073 was too woolly, smeary, dull, honestly. I much prefer vintage API 312s there, huge tight bottom end and lovely highs. With my 67 in front of a Fender amp, the 1073 though was just lovely, alwawys the best match, because of its smoothness. Someone else might have done the opposite.
Ultimately, I found my sensible version. In all of this we haven't talked about the EQ, and what I found is I much prefer other EQs to the 1073. So I found a vintage Neve 1290 (just the preamp, like a double width 1272 module) which had been modified to have all the orignal circuits and transformers from a 1073, minus the eq boards. I love how it sounds. First I tried with a converted vintage 1272 and that didn't do it at all, that extra gain stage matters. It isn't as rolled off as my 1073s were, and it has the huge huge bottom. It loses a tiny bit of the mid presence though - still better than the other clones. We are splitting such tiny hairs here, for what? No one will ever hear the tracks I recorded
I mostly use other pres now anyway, I've fallen in love with vintage 312s. Compared to everything else the 1073 is a distortion box, as someone famous once put it. In another thread folks suggested clean pres with my reissue U67, and I have had immense pleasure with some modern tube pres like the Branch. I use 312s and two Branches for nearly everything except small combo guitar amps, which always get the 1290.
I miss the feel of the original 1073 sometimes, that heavy chunk with which the knobs turned (no clone matches that) or that slight upper mid presence that some people call magic. But I am far more glad to have the money, and just use the 1290 instead.
Did this help? I doubt it, if you must go on this journey yourself, you must. Otherwise get a BAE! Get me one too please in fact.