Thank you, all for your helpful comments.
I didn't want to be boorish by posting possibly uninteresting comments on my continuing encounter with this material.
Roland,
I did get Voxengo MSED, and it works fine. But, I have not found a way, yet, to use it "live", in Audacity. (I will explore it in Reaper after I get this current project out the door. So, maybe it functions differently in Reaper than it does in Audacity. I just don't know, yet.)
The way I am finding it to work is just like all the other "effects" in Audacity. I can not use it live/dynamically/realtime in Audacity. By that, I mean that I can select a track, set the gain and width knobs, and then hit "apply". Audacity will then process the entire track with those settings, to produce a new processed track.
What I would like is to be able to click "play" for a M/S track, and then be able to adjust the width dynamically (while the track is playing). That way I can hear the width tweaking in real time (and also independent of volume changes). I can also use the mute buttons to switch back-and-forth between a previously processed track and the currently playing track, and can thus compare, and tweak the knobs on-the-fly.
The way I currently perceive I need to proceed (in Audacity) is to process the track, which is then static, and then play the track (with its baked in settings) and compare to tracks that are the product of previous MSED processing (with previous knob settings).
I do not know how to use MSED to play a M/S track with the ability to adjust width (ratio of mid to side) while the track is playing. In my ignorance, I can only decode the track, and then go back and play it (with the settings that were baked in when the track was processed).
DG
P.S. Although it appears to me that Reaper will be more desirable, there is one thing I like about Audacity. That is the ability to set labels, and then, when exporting, have Audacity create a separate wav file for each labeled portion of the track. This speeds up CD creation. (I still find CDs useful.) Perhaps, Reaper can do this, too. I will explore whether that is possible. But, after I get the current project finished.