Thanks!
Though I think after reading that I must have been one of the "lucky" ones, it took about 15 mins for me, did all the reset the PC stuff and it still read as disconnected, so then I went through all the Windows 7 instructions about Device manager and some driver thing and network adapters and changing that to Microsoft etc... but the annoying part was having all that stuff open ontop of the instructions I was trying to read! LOL
so I was flicking between pages, reading a bit and doing the next instruction then changing pages again... about 10 times!
at Some point the Librarian s/ware came to life and said I was Connected

I suspect it was more luck than skill though if smarter folks than me took so long.
I`ll be glad to give my ears a rest on monday though, I`ve spent pretty much the entire weekend auditioning and short-listing sound packs for it! I think I`m just too picky LOL