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Old 12th February 2009 | Show parent
  #31
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Women are interested in mysterious guys. The ones who don't show all their cards, who are difficult to read. The ones who act interested and then uninterested. The ones who are too busy living an amazing life to notice her and who are the "alpha" types. Not the testosterone jack-offs, but the guys who get sh!t done and command respect.

They want providers and men with status. They are social creatures and want to snag the great catch so they can show him off to their girlfriends.

Give her the gift of missing you and she will give chase, if there ever was any interest to begin with.

If she sees you as just a friend, then leave it at that. You've made it clear of your intentions and she never took the bait and now the "mystery" is gone. She knows you too well and will never be interested in you in that way. You can't tip toe around women. If you want them, don't hesitate to ask them out. If you hang around and do nothing for too long, she'll write you off.

And, as was mentioned, women are always the choosers. They decide wether to date you or not. The key, when dating is to always have a few options until one of them wants you to be "exclusive" with them, and then it becomes your choice.

Also, dating multiple girls will increase your value in her eyes. Women want what every other women wants... If she know other girls are after you, she's more likely to be interested.

Some things I've learned over the years.
Old 12th February 2009 | Show parent
  #32
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🎧 15 years
Quote:
Originally Posted by Never1 ➑️

And, as was mentioned, women are always the choosers.
I don't agree with that. Maybe if you are getting in over your head.

In the long run it must be a mutual choice, if there is any chance of lasting.
Old 12th February 2009 | Show parent
  #33
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Yup. I think Never1 is pretty much right, although a little too general and pat. The babes always want to alpha. He's self confident and knows what he wants and how to get it.

I always used to joke with my wife that she always dated the quarterback or the point guard or the star pitcher or the head of the debate team. She ended up with the leader of the band, composer and lead guitarist!

And generally being too eager is a turn off. Mystery is right. Aloofness can work. But if it's contrived, it'll never work. It's like not even noticing she's the most beautiful woman in the room.

I was once in a room with a very beautiful woman. She was a TV star, -- some day time soap opera. I walked in and she was surrounded by 12 geeky, loser type guys. Literally. She was sitting down and they were surrounding her like flys to paper. I went over to the other side of the room and sat down. Within 10 minutes she got up, sat down next to me and introduced herself. Damn.
Old 12th February 2009 | Show parent
  #34
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🎧 15 years
it almost pains me to agree with what my man henryrobinett and never1 are saying (because it feels like we're saying that all woman are somehow subject to this 'rule' or 'formula'), but i've found it to be true, too.
Old 12th February 2009 | Show parent
  #35
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Sounds Great ➑️
I don't agree with that. Maybe if you are getting in over your head.

In the long run it must be a mutual choice, if there is any chance of lasting.

There is always a mutual choice when it comes to getting serious with each other. But, initially, we're the ones who must put ourselves out there and ask them out. They choose to say yes or no.

Women will always give subtle hints to being interested, though, and the right guy for her will pick up on the hints and make his move. The wrong ones are clueless and miss out.

It is sad to say they are all like this, but when it comes to a woman of quality, they pretty much all behave the same way/ respond to the same things. When you know their nature, you can use it to your advantage and consitantly date/nail hot, high quality women.

Women who I'd consider lesser quality are the desperate ones. The ones who are aggressive with you and constantly trying to get your attention, but in the wrong way. They turn me off in a hurry.

If we appear needy and clingy, it sends the wrong signal to the woman we're interested in and turns her off.

We all want what we can't have, and when someone throws themselves at you, you cast them aside because there's no chase. No prize.
Old 12th February 2009 | Show parent
  #36
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Quote:
Originally Posted by henryrobinett ➑️
I was once in a room with a very beautiful woman. She was a TV star, -- some day time soap opera. I walked in and she was surrounded by 12 geeky, loser type guys. Literally. She was sitting down and they were surrounding her like flys to paper. I went over to the other side of the room and sat down. Within 10 minutes she got up, sat down next to me and introduced herself. Damn.
Henry, she was just hanging with you to avoid the geek squad. Sorry to burst your bubble.
Old 12th February 2009 | Show parent
  #37
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Sounds Great ➑️
Henry, she was just hanging with you to avoid the geek squad. Sorry to burst your bubble.
Yeah, I thought that too!
Old 12th February 2009 | Show parent
  #38
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Prime Tire ➑️
Careful which microphone. If she's not a gear-head she might get the wrong impression if she unwraps an SM58.

Yes, that was a dick joke.
And what impression would she get if you gave her a RE20? Or a shotgun mic?

And I have a feeling, by the time I finally understand women, I won't be able to use what I learned since I'd be married. Or dead.
Old 12th February 2009 | Show parent
  #39
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Fast_Fingers ➑️
by the time I finally understand women
aahahahahahahahahaha
Old 14th February 2009 | Show parent
  #40
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+1 on the ignore her thing. Damn I thought I was the only one that knew about that -trick-.
Old 14th February 2009 | Show parent
  #41
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Quote:
Originally Posted by The Beatsmith ➑️
aahahahahahahahahaha
LOL
the problem is the moment you think you "get it", you're hopelessly lost.
I'm glad they're a mystery.

Yes, they choose initially. Then you have to jump.
They hate guys that are too chicken to show, even when interested.
At least the women I go for. (not weak cry babies yuch)
face it. what do you have to lose? self appreciation? haha
we all know the "will swim river of snot for fukk of the century" is true.
Old 14th February 2009 | Show parent
  #42
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🎧 15 years
Smile

.

if you want ultimate revenge - kidnap her, and take her to the hospital,
...where you BOTH undergo transgender surgeries.

...in your new role-reversal reality, she will TRULY understand your pain...


now you'll know what it feels like to be a crazy person every month...

and she'll know what it feels like to be a crazy person every freeking day...
...(and the true reason the world is such a frikkin' mess)...



.
Old 14th February 2009 | Show parent
  #43
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🎧 10 years
Quote:
Originally Posted by Sqye ➑️
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if you want ultimate revenge - kidnap her, and take her to the hospital,
...where you BOTH undergo transgender surgeries.

...in your new role-reversal reality, she will TRULY understand your pain...


now you'll know what it feels like to be a crazy person every month...

and she'll know what it feels like to be a crazy person every freeking day...
...(and the true reason the world is such a frikkin' mess)...



.
Alternatively, you could sleep with her mother...
Old 14th February 2009 | Show parent
  #44
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🎧 15 years
Smile

Quote:
Originally Posted by Fast_Fingers ➑️
Alternatively, you could sleep with her mother...
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LOVE you sig...

.
Old 15th February 2009 | Show parent
  #45
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🎧 10 years
Girl's comment upon opening present: "Oh, a vintage U47! How thoughtful! But why is 'Mike' inscribed on it?"

Reminds me of Homer's bowling ball present to Marge.

I say try to get over her, seriously. If you can achieve that, only good things can happen: 1), you're over her so you can move on and have more time and money for gear, or 2) it actually makes her want you and then you can decide if if it's worth pursuing all over again but on your terms.
Old 15th February 2009 | Show parent
  #46
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🎧 10 years
The best way to to pick up chicks is meet their single friends. That is how I met almost every girl I dated. I am even dating one of my ex's friends now.
Old 16th February 2009 | Show parent
  #47
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🎧 15 years
I'm just saying



Old 16th February 2009 | Show parent
  #48
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Lolololol
Old 16th February 2009 | Show parent
  #49
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Quote:
Originally Posted by MikeTSH ➑️
Lolololol
All kidding aside. Just be yourself. I agree with the guys about playing it cool, but don't be so "cool" that you are not showing her who you truly are. Honestly I have never got a girl from "playing it cool" (well from the stage but that is different).
Old 16th February 2009 | Show parent
  #50
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🎧 15 years
the best way to get chicks, is to just be yourself man.

the girls that like your type of dude will flock to you, don't try and be something your not for a chick because you'll be that dude who is 'weird'


when you finially get a chick convinced your worth sleeping with, or whatever you want to do with her... have fun, but make sure you don't invade her personal space.

don't call her all the time, don't text her all the time.


go out drinking with your friends, if she gets pissed off, you can look foward to making it better and the makeup sex...

i don't know how well this advice will work for you, but its worked for me well..
for example..

i hate to shave.. as a matter of fact i will not shave my face with a razor, i only buzz it down real close..

some girls hate that, ask me why i don't shave.
i say i don't like to shave- its not worth it
some girls love the skruff on the face.

those are the girls that wake up in my den bro

whatever you do, don't get yourself too involved in one chick below the age of 25, you are young, you must practice with many. (my own mothers advice)
Old 16th February 2009 | Show parent
  #51
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Glenn Kuras ➑️
I'm just saying



jesus glenn hahahahahahahahaha

don't let your chick find this. thumbsup
Old 16th February 2009 | Show parent
  #52
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🎧 15 years
Quote:
Originally Posted by henryrobinett ➑️

I was once in a room with a very beautiful woman. She was a TV star, -- some day time soap opera. I walked in and she was surrounded by 12 geeky, loser type guys. Literally. She was sitting down and they were surrounding her like flys to paper. I went over to the other side of the room and sat down. Within 10 minutes she got up, sat down next to me and introduced herself. Damn.
Henry has always been someone i looked up to on this forum...

Clean cut ladies man as well....
Old 16th February 2009 | Show parent
  #53
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🎧 15 years
Quote:
Originally Posted by xmostynx ➑️
jesus glenn hahahahahahahahaha

don't let your chick find this. thumbsup
and make sure to clear your internet history and cache before she uses your computer
Old 17th February 2009 | Show parent
  #54
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🎧 10 years
I've given up on her to be honest - she's never going to be interested. She told me she was going to come back to my school to do sixth form with me, albeit she'd be a year below me because she's had a year out - but the point being that now she's changed her mind and wants to join the RAF. And I realised something - she's been using me to dump all her problems onto. I've had it with girls like that now. I just gave up.

Oh well, there's gotta be someone heh
Old 17th February 2009 | Show parent
  #55
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🎧 15 years
you dont treat anybody like dirt, but you just try to imagine how annoying it would be if everyone told you how great you were. you know that guy who always wants to sit with the cool guys at lunch? never gonna happen. now if you are cool and comfortable with yourself, everyone notices and wants to be a part of it. you do have to be cool though. thats hard to teach. (cool just meaning being an interesting person, what ever that is.) oh, and girls like men, not boys. if you seem to be just a little more mature than the rest, then your "a man". doesnt take much!
Old 17th February 2009 | Show parent
  #56
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🎧 15 years
BTW this is a great sample of NOT COOL.



or this

Old 17th February 2009 | Show parent
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Glenn Kuras ➑️
BTW this is a great sample of NOT COOL.

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dude where did you find this pic of me?!
Old 18th February 2009 | Show parent
  #58
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🎧 15 years
Uh . . . you have some serious problems. Seriously.
Old 18th February 2009 | Show parent
  #59
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🎧 10 years
Quote:
Originally Posted by Glenn Kuras ➑️
BTW this is a great sample of NOT COOL.



I dont know, Joe Dirt got the girl. (But I guess he had a Hemi.)
Just can't get that girl..-joe-dirt.jpg
Old 18th February 2009 | Show parent
  #60
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🎧 10 years
Question

Quote:
Originally Posted by Never1 ➑️
when someone throws themselves at you, you cast them aside because there's no chase. No prize.
disagree,
when someone throws at you,
you feel like God has touched you, your body vibrates with joy, you see her smile, you feel you body moves without you.
the more intense she is with you, the stronger&faster the feeling becomes,
your brain starts to hallucinate naturally, sometimes feels like fireworks when you wake up, pure sparks of pleasure inside your body, like chocolate chips & milk, you feel your body is vibrating, and feels sweeter
when you look at her, you see she is soo beautiful, like she has no flaws, the brain erases all flaws on purpose, looking at her gives so much pleasure like she is perfect, flawless, some times you see scars in her face disapear like magic, and you think it must be some kind of spell, and then you remeber stories you thought were sci-fi or kids tales, feels when people drink too much beer and sees everything more beutiful, "beer googles" but naturally and much more stronger.
feels like every molecule of your body is connected to her, like giant invisible magnets, an invisible energy so strong sometimes controls your body, you want to move but you cant, it makes you realize the power of the energy, you want to stay still but your body moves and she looks at you, she moves you move, near 0 latency, 1000x stronger than the most adictive thing you could imagine.
when you connect that invisible energy to her, all stress dissapears instantly.
every odor she has smells like instant extasis, specially in those days.
when you shower and you smell like nicotine from others, you start to feel the fireworks again, the memory smells so nice. smells connects with memories so nice.
your body starts to get so happy, you feel happines comes from within you, like if you had a fountain of happines in your chest, and washes your body with liquid invisible happines,
every thing she says becomes pleasure instantly, every thing she does.
you feel things you never knew existed or were possible, and sometimes you rember you had heard something that feels just like that, somewhere in a movie, in a book, in a song, or a childs tale you heard long ago.
every song you hear feels so warm, so nice, so beutiful, you start to understand
every little thing you do becomes so amazing,
food tastes so good, water feels so refreshing, the cold air in the nights feels so warm, so nice, looking the stars in the night gives so much peace.
it feels just like heaven.
when she talks to you, you feel orgasms in your chest.
when she interrupts anything for you and walks fast towards you, makes you feel like if you had 15 years old again or 25mg of viagra in your brain, and then you think you were soo wrong when you thinked that those feelings were lost becouse you becomed older, you think some how you fooled your self thinking it was impossible to feel that again becouse you are getting older.
the clouds feels moving like in the movies,
a dinner and a talk of 6 hours with her seems like 5 minutes, you cant beleive how fast time flyes, you start to think both cell phone clocks and watchs must be wrong, time bends like the painting with bent clocks.
is that feeling where everything comes from, is the reason for living.
the thing most of the songs are made off.
when you ask God for advice, you look up the sky automatically, you feel you didnt moved your head, and that makes you feel&think, look at me, ive heard your question, then you feel like God is moving the giant invisible wheels of life, like a titanic invisible clock mechanism, and you know God has made something that will make you live everything you need to live&experience, to understand what you asked.
feels like heaven gates has open on earth, for a moment
feels nothing could go wrong and thers no limits.
you start to think you understand what some songs lyrics are all about.
you feel sometimes, some one has been here before, im not the only one, im not the first, and wont be the last
no matter how big or complex is the problem, you feel nothing is impossible, everything is possible

but thats only the tip of the iceberg
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